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    What Alone Time Looks Like As A Couple

    What Alone Time Looks Like As A Couple

    Most of us need alone time, either regularly or on occasion. The challenge with asking for time alone as part of a couple is that your partner may not understand your need to be solo. Here are some things to consider.

    Balance Is Essential

    It is important for couples to maintain both their individual needs and their needs as a couple. You and your partner’s alone time may be time spent solo, in self-care, at the gym, enjoying a sport or hobby, or socializing with their loved one’s solo. Or alone time with just you and no one else. This time apart is essential for balance.

    Understanding An Introverted Partner

    If your partner is introverted and you are extroverted don’t take their need for solo time or preference to stay in with you rather than going out personally. As someone who is introverted, their home time and alone time is how they recharge—while socializing and group activities are how you recharge.

    If Alone Time Drastically Increases

    If your partner gradually or abruptly wants to be alone all the time it may be a sign that they are working through something, are anxious or stressed, or are feeling depressed. If you aren’t sure what is causing the increased need to be alone it’s time for a chat to express your concerns. If you already know what they are working through, be patient—but if the increased introversion lasts more than a few months it’s time for another chat and maybe for some outside help.

    Also, at the beginning of a relationship you may spend far more time together—but at some point the relationship rhythm will shift as you regain the balance of how you split your time.

  • Better Together Or Apart
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    Are You Better Together Or Apart?

    We’ve all been there. A relationship comes to an end but at some point down the road, we consider getting back together. Here’s what to work through first. What Has Changed…

  • Relationship Deal Breakers
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    Relationship Deal Breakers

    Relationships are not always sunshine and roses but there are some things that you should not tolerate, compromise on, or accept. Here are the top relationship deal breakers. You have different…

  • You Make Your Relationship Rules
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    You Make Your Relationship Rules

    When it comes to your romantic relationship you and your partner are free to make your own rules. Here are a few things to consider when making your relationship rules. You…

  • Can You Fall Back In Love
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    Can You Fall Back In Love?

    Is the spark in your relationship gone? Did you lose your love somewhere along the way? Are you wondering if it’s too late? Here’s how to fall back in love. You…

  • Things To Discuss Before You Move In Together
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    Things To Discuss Before You Move In Together

    It’s exciting deciding that you are ready to take your relationship one step further by cohabitating. Here are a few things to discuss before you move in together. Finances Living together…

  • Can You Find Love On Dating Apps
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    Can You Find Love On Dating Apps?

    Dating apps started out being primarily for hookups with the occasional love story but things are changing. Yes, you can find love on dating apps! Know Where To Go First up,…