It doesn’t matter how perfectly matched you are every relationship will have its highs and lows. Sometimes it takes a few months to notice you are in a relationship rut but once you do there are a few things you can do to turn things around.
First things first, you and your partner must acknowledge the rut. Talk openly about if there is anything bothering either of you. Sometimes you might not realize what it is until you give it a bit of thought. Sometimes it’s nothing specific just a matter of one or both of you being caught up in a busier than usual schedule.
Break The Monotony
Your partner must be your priority. To get things back on track schedule some time together to break the monotony. Scheduling a vacation or weekend away is ideal. At the very least, schedule a day together and a weekly date night. Instead of doing the normal dinner or movie, do something a bit out-of-the-box—like trying something new together. Maybe a paint date? Don’t worry you don’t need to be an artist!
Once you get out of your relationship rut continue to schedule fun activities and romance well in advance so that time together is already built into your schedule.